Cities / San Diego, CA

San Diego, CA — Adult Nightlife, Kink & Community

The free community directory for San Diego: pole studios, strip clubs, swingers clubs, dungeons — every listing sourced from official sites, kept current by the community.

6 venues
1 upcoming events
4 categories

Upcoming Events in San Diego

Dates from official organizers — see the full calendar
Wed, Jul 15, 2026
94th Social - July Kink Community Munch
Munch · Stone Brewing Co Liberty Station, 2816 Historic Decatur Rd, San Diego, CA 92106

Pole Studios

2 in San Diego
📍AK Pole Studio
1562 Garnet Ave, San Diego, CA 92109
The official site offers pole dancing and aerial classes for absolute beginners through advanced students.
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📍The Pole Collective
3002 Barnette Ave #3, San Diego, CA 92110
The official site describes it as "sex worker-owned, stripper-led, and held by the collective," the city's longest-standing pole dance studio, established in 2015.
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Strip Clubs

2 in San Diego
📍Candy Shop Topless Nightclub
4000 Kearny Mesa Rd, San Diego, CA 92111
The official site describes it as a topless nightclub offering "Southern California's new nightlife experience" with top performers and DJs, concerts, and private VIP rooms.
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📍Goldfingers Gentlemen's Club
8660 Miramar Rd, San Diego, CA 92126
The official site describes it as "San Diego's largest strip club, featuring 5,000 square feet of full nude entertainment," open 7 days a week 7PM-2AM.
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Swingers Clubs

1 in San Diego
📍Thad's Private Social Club
3517 E St, San Diego, CA 92102
The official site describes Thad's as a private social/lifestyle club that has been "San Diego's best kept secret since 1973," open Friday, Saturday and select Sundays.
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Dungeons

1 in San Diego
📍The Midnight Manor
San Diego, CA (address by appointment)
The official site presents it as a "fully equipped San Diego dungeon" offering sessions, photo shoots, videos and dungeon rentals, marked "NOW OPEN."
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